Is Your Teen Abusing Drugs or Alcohol?
Besides having trouble with school and relationships, teenagers taking drugs may have
mood swings with irritability, anger and changes in sleep patterns.
Changes in behavior, a change in grades, a change in how they dress, or a sudden change
in friends may suggest the beginnings of alcohol or drug abuse. Listen to teachers
and the teenager's friends.
A screening test
If you're convinced your child has a problem, talk to your child's healthcare provider about
an evaluation and possibly doing a drug screen. If your team refuses to go to the
appointment, this may imply an admission of drug abuse.
Parents can help their teenagers kick a drug habit or avoid them in the first place:
Address the situation head on. Do not make excuses or enable the drug use.
Make it very clear that this behavior is not acceptable. Provide consequences
for your child's drug use.
Seek professional involvement immediately. Drug and alcohol abuse is a health
problem, and you can quickly begin family counseling to determine if there are
any underlying problems. If you are considering counseling, your healthcare provider
may be able to refer you to a counselor.
If your teenager isn't experimenting with drugs, provide encouragement and positive
reinforcement. Show your kids that you respect their good judgment by rewarding
them with more privileges and increased responsibilities.
It is important not to panic at the first sign of alcohol and drug use. This may increase
the divide between parent and teen. It is better to engage them in a mature dialogue.
Treat them as if they were adults with their own opinions. At the same time, reinforce
that with adulthood comes the responsibility of health, safety, and appropriate behavior.
Look for changes
How can a parent know if a teenager is using drugs? Look for changes in everyday functioning.
Behavioral changes that are interfering with schoolwork, social activities or behavior
at home may be due to substance abuse.
Warning signs may include:
Suddenly getting bad grades, or loss of interest in school activities.
A rapid, unexplained change of friends.
A lack of interest in appearance or clothing.
Evidence of lying, stealing, or spending money, but having nothing to show for
Sudden or unusual mood changes, especially depression, anger, and aggression.
Physical signs of drug or alcohol dependence like intoxication or hangovers.
What should you do if you think your child is using drugs?
Remain calm and in total control of your own feelings.
If you do find out that your teen is drinking or abusing drugs, let him or her know
that this behavior is illegal and unsafe and that it must stop immediately. If the
abuse doesn't stop, then it's time to consider seeking professional counseling.