If Your Child Has Trouble Adjusting After a Burn Injury
Symptoms that your child may be having trouble adjusting
It's very hard to cope in times of stress. Children are less able to cope with stress
because of their limited life experience. Here are some signs that your child may
be having trouble:
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Agitated behavior, such as crying or thumb-sucking
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A change in their normal eating, sleeping, or bathroom habits
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Separation anxiety, such as clinging, refusing to sleep alone, or wanting to be held
all the time
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Sleep problems and nightmares
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Lapses in toilet training, dressing, or self-feeding skill. For instance, a child
who is potty trained may start having accidents.
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Withdrawal from family or friends
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Less self-confidence
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Makes negative comments about self
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Verbal and physical aggression
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Repeated episodes of sadness
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Acting out traumatic events in play
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Trouble focusing
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Behavior changes (the quiet child may become frantic and the energetic child may become
lethargic)
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Physical problems, such as headaches, stomachaches, or dizziness
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More dependence on parents or caregivers
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Resentment of unfairness of situation, blaming
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Trouble with peers
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Unrealistic expectations of self and others
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Concern with body image
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Frustration and rebellion
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Reluctance to trust or open self to others
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Feeling hopeless, that life is meaningless
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Depression
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Poor impulse control, easily frustrated
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Drug and alcohol abuse
Be aware of your child’s activity on social media sites and any possibilities of online
bullying. Consult with tech specialists if you aren't certain how to keep track of
and protect your child's online presence. In addition, work closely with your child’s
teachers to make sure of a safe, respectful school environment.
Any abnormal, ongoing behavior should be checked by a mental health provider. It often
helps to get professional care when you are concerned or unsure what do next. If one
or more of these behaviors continues over a long period of time, professional help
may be needed.
Contact your child's healthcare provider to talk about these changes or get a referral
to a mental health provider. If the behavior problems are severe enough, go to the
emergency room. If your child talks about suicide, has a plan and the means to carry
it out, take them to the emergency room or call the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
(9-8-8) right away. Take all comments about suicide seriously.