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Bereavement

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Bereavement refers to a period of mourning before, during and after a loss, and grief in reaction to the loss. Bereavement care is an important part of the hospice experience and includes anticipating grief reactions and providing ongoing support for the bereaved over a period of 13 months. UR Medicine Home Care offers our Bereavement program to the community at no charge.

How Bereavement Support Helps

Losing a loved one isn’t easy to prepare for or accept. Grieving is a healthy and normal response to loss. We provide support through the bereavement process and can help individuals and families heal. We’re available to provide you or your family with as much or as little assistance before or after a loved one has died, at no cost. Our Bereavement Program is an extension of our hospice care and helps address feelings of loss, grief or sorrow through:

Hospice Service Area

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  • Individual or group support
  • Community referrals to trained bereavement professionals as needed
  • Special programs and services, such as education or training
  • Quarterly letters
  • The annual Memorial Butterfly Release
  • The Evening of Remembrance held annually to honor loved ones
  • Trained bereavement volunteers that offer massage, Reiki, energy work, spiritual care and who provide regular supportive phone calls

Local Support Groups

  • UR Medicine Home Care (2180 Empire Blvd., Webster, NY 14580) Held Tuesdays at 11:00 a.m. This group provides support to anyone who has experienced a death of a loved one. Facilitated by Michele Allman, LMSW, Bereavement Coordinator for Visiting Nurse Hospice.
  • UR Medicine Home Care (2180 Empire Blvd., Webster, NY 14580) Held Thursdays at 11:00 a.m. This group provides support to anyone who has experienced a death of a child. May or may not be affiliated with UR Medicine Home Care. Facilitated by Michele Allman, LMSW, Bereavement Coordinator for Visiting Nurse Hospice. Please call prior to your first meeting.
  • Ontario-Yates Hospice offers bi-monthly bereavement support groups facilitated by Jan DiDuro. Community members are welcomed to attend the first and third Tuesdays from 1:00-2:30 p.m. at The Presbyterian Church 24 Park Place, in Geneva. Meetings are held in the Parlor Room. Contact Jan for more information at (315) 759-8225 or Jdiduro@vnsnet.com.
  • Elmgrove United Methodist Church, 1500 Spencerport Rd, Rochester, NY 14606: Group will be held weekly on Thursday evenings at 6:30 p.m. This group provides support to anyone who has experienced a death of a loved one. Facilitated by Carrie Horton and Debbie Carey. Please call prior to your first meeting.
  • Church of the Assumption 20 East Ave. Fairport, NY 14450: Young widow or widower group. Group will provide support to any adult ages 40-60 that has experienced the death of a spouse. The group will be held each Monday at 4:30pm and facilitated by Michele Allman, LMSW, Bereavement Coordinator for Visiting Nurse Hospice and Annabeth McCorkle. Please call for information.

Please call:

  • Visiting Nurse Hospice – Michele Allman, LMSW, at (585) 274-4069, or email at Michele_Allman@URMC.Rochester.edu for any questions or to make reservations. One to one supportive counseling is also available.
  • Ontario-Yates Hospice – Jan DiDuro at (315) 759-8225, or email at Janice_DiDuro@URMC.Rochester.edu for any questions or to make reservations.

Specialized Support for Children

The agency offers Camp Heartstrings/Camp Dreams. The program is a day camp designed to benefit children (entering grades 2–11 in September 2018) who are adjusting to the death of a loved one. Developed by Licensed Master Social Workers, this camp promotes understanding, acceptance, hope and healing through a comprehensive program of activities. It is staffed by credentialed professionals and trained volunteers. This camp is offered free-of-charge to children and families, and is provided by Visiting Nurse Hospice, Pittsford Youth Services, Dreams from Drake, and St. John Fisher College. Learn more about Camp Heartstrings/Camp Dreams.

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Insurance Coverage

The hospice benefit provides bereavement care to families and loved ones in the year following a patient’s death. Additionally, bereavement services to the community, including counseling and support, are provided at no cost.