Keeping Bullying and Violence Out of Schools
School should be a safe place for children, where neither parents nor children should
have to worry about violence or emotional harm. Unfortunately, that's not always the
case in today's world. Violence exists in schools, and it can make both children and
Violence can range from bullying to fighting to the use of weapons on or near school
property. Violence can occur during school hours or at after-hours activities like
dances or sporting events. But schools, parents, and children can take certain steps
to work together and keep kids safe at school.
Talking to your children about safety
Protecting your children starts with communication. Talk with them early and often
to open the lines of communication. This will make it natural for them to talk to
you if they are worried about their safety.
Parents should talk to their children about:
Kids’ experiences at school. Talk about whether they're happy and feel safe, what the other students are like,
if something is concerning them, or if they're being bullied.
Right ways to handle anger. Fighting, aggression, and violence aren't the answer to anger in any situation. Teach
your kids to work on remaining calm and patient, talking out problems instead of fighting,
and seeking an adult's help when needed.
Communicating about problems at school. Make sure your kids know to talk to you or a trusted teacher or administrator about
someone who has behaved violently or made threats.
What you need to know about bullying
Bullying is a form of violence in which a child threatens, harasses, picks on, or
embarrasses another child. Bullying can take place in-person at school or through
the Internet. This is known as cyberbullying. Cyberbullying can mean sending harassing
emails, instant messages, or text messages or posting harassing or belittling information
on social media sites.
Here’s how you can help protect your kids:
Talk honestly about bullying. Help them understand what it means, what can happen as a result of bullying, and
the signs of bullying in various forms.
Promote self-confidence in children. Get children involved in activities that they enjoy and that make them feel good about
themselves. This can help them feel confident at school and with friends.
Teach that bullying is never allowed. Make sure that your children understand that it's never OK to bully or be bullied,
and that it's important to speak to a parent or teacher if they witness any bullying.
Working with schools
Administrators and teachers should be working to ensure that school is safe for your
children and taking measures to reduce the risk for violence. If you're concerned
about violence in your children's school, speak with school officials to see what
they have done to keep kids safe.
Schools should have safety precautions and practices in place, including:
Close supervision of students by faculty members
Telephones in each classroom
Identification badges for students and visitors
Counseling for students who want it
Restrictions on students' trips off-campus during school hours
Restrictions on clothing to reduce the likelihood of weapons being hidden under coats
Detailed reports on violent incidents
A no-tolerance policy on drugs, alcohol, weapons, bullying, and violence
Look for signs of possible violence in your children's life, as well as signs that
your children may be exposed to violence at school. Be an informed, aware parent to
better protect your children in every way you can.